Have you ever:
Guess what? …lots of people have …me included.
Have you ever sat down and thought why’s this happening (read more), or more to the point how can you change this? Guess what? …lots of people haven’t …and they haven’t committed to and made the change (read more) …but that’s not because it’s impossible …it’s because it involves some discipline.
Well, when I say, ‘some discipline’ …I actually mean taking just 5 minutes out of your day to think …re-focus …re-gain your flow …and to feel in control of your journey. Or to use the ‘you can’t see the wood for the trees’ analogy ...take 5 minutes to stop focusing on the trees …lift your head up to see the whole situation ...and remind yourself it’s a wood.
First you need to be clear on your overall goal …your bigger picture …your end point …or to use the analogy, your ‘wood’. Set yourself 5 minutes of ‘me time’ and find a quiet place with a comfy chair.
If you’re anything like me …this usually takes a minute to turn off my computer screen, turn down the volume, silence my phone …and get comfy
For me, I focus on a saying my colleague used to say …breathe in peace; breathe out tension
I also find the 1 minute meditation works really well
Now you’re feeling much calmer, and have a more focused state of mind …step back and look at the whole situation
Think about what’s important about your ‘wood’ …think about the benefits
Think of 3 words to describe how your ‘wood’ makes you feel; both on your journey; and on completion
Think about how motivated and committed you are to your ‘wood’
Maybe they’re part of someone else’s ‘wood’
Identify 3 things you can do right now to help you on your journey, and more importantly contribute to your ‘wood’?
Write down 3 good things that have happened to you today …or 3 things that went well today …even better if they contributed to your ‘wood’
And that’s it …and it only took 5 minutes.
Extra tip …being a visual kind of girl, I do this quick 5 minute exercise by visualising sunsets …either by looking at photos of sunsets I’ve experienced (like this one in Camber Sands) or visualising them in my mind. This helps me focus on my end point (my ‘wood’), and helps me to lift my head up away from the details (the ‘trees’) to reveal the bigger picture …I love sunsets …they make me feel calm …they make me smile …and most importantly they help me focus my mind and get more in control.
So, over to you
I’d love to know what your ’wood’ is …but most importantly, let me know that you’ve focused your mind and got more in control.
Thanks for exploring with Ad Florem
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